Saturday, January 10, 2009

Circumstances

There is an old story about a farmer in China.  He was getting by all right, but he had only one prized possession, a beautiful while stallion.  

One day, the stallion got out of the corral and disappeared.  The man was much loved in his neighborhood and his neighbors all came over to sympathize with him. They all said what a terrible thing that you lost your one beloved possession.  

Calmly, the man fixed them with his gaze and replied, "Maybe yes, maybe no.  It is too early to tell."

Mystified as to how he could be so calm under the circumstances the neighbors left sorrowfully.  But two days later the stallion returned and following him were three beautiful wild horses.  

The neighbors saw this and were joyous.  They once again talked to the man and told him how fortunate he was.  Once again his response was the same, "Maybe yes, maybe no.  It is too soon to tell."

Again, the neighbors left mystified.  

The next day, the man's son, delighted with the newly acquired wild horses, went into the corral to train one.  No more than a minute after he mounted one of the horses, he was thrown and in the fall broke his leg.  

Again the neighbors were distraught and came to the man to extend their sympathies.  What a terrible thing to lose the only person who was helping you in the field like this.  Calmly, the man repeated his belief, "Maybe yes, maybe no.  It is too soon to tell."

Again they left completely confused as to how the man could be so content.  

As the week went by a Warlord and his followers swept down on the town and took every grown son to fight with them in their army. Most all his neighbors lost children.  But when the band came to the man's farm they found him with a disabled son and passed him up.  

Are we all too quick to judge the circumstances in our lives?

To paraphrase Shakespeare, and happily I have a distinguished poet among my followers who will give me the correct quote, "Circumstances are neither good nor bad, but thinking makes them so."

"Guard well the portals of your mind," is another famous quote whose author I have lost.  Once you start realizing the power of your thoughts, you will have discovered one of life's most liberating secrets.   

Breathe Easy.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Doing Your Thing

Last night my son convinced me I should start a blog here.  When I told my wife, she said, "Why?"

Being male, I responded in typical male fashion, "I'm a writer.  Writers write."

But this morning, on a walk, my response came back into my mind.  Was that the real reason? Should my answer have been a Socratic response, "Why do singers sing?"

I am blogging because I enjoy it.  It gives me satisfaction. 

It brought a larger thought to mind.  Don't we all do that?  Are we really marching to our own drummer or are we doing whatever others are telling us we should do?  How many dreams are squelched because they aren't approved of?  How many people leave jobs, follow their dreams and are rewarded with success beyond their expectations.  

The theme of these posts is Breathe Easy.  What is your special activity that makes your heart sing?  Do you take 10 or 15 minutes a day doing to feed your heart?  Try it.  You'll find you'll breathe a little easier.